Why do mental blocks return?

[Edited transcript below]

Q: Once I beat my mental block, I fail, and then it comes right back. What do I do?​

Why Do Mental Blocks Come Back?

So this is a really tough one for athletes and parents. It’s very frustrating because mental blocks definitely go in cycles. If you’ve had a mental block, then, yes, they can come back.

The reason they come back is that athletes don’t know why they happened in the first place, and they don’t know how they got over them. It’s almost like they’re just waiting for them to go away magically. They show up every day at practice, waiting for the day where it’s like, “Okay, I’m good, I’m healed, I’m good now.”

But mental blocks happen as an accumulation of how they’re processing what’s going on around them. It’s a buildup over time of pressure and fear, and they’re just kind of waiting for it to go away. But if you have a plan and know what to do to make it go away, then if you notice that little shift happening where things feel harder than they used to, you just recalibrate back to those things that are working.

 

Tips for Maintaining Positive Habits in Athletes

When we fix our mental blocks, there’s this big stigma: do you have a mental block, or don’t you? A mental block is a challenge you’re working through. It doesn’t mean you’re going to have a mental block 100% and then it’s going to go away 100%. That’s not how it works. Think about the things that help you overcome the mental block and don’t stop doing them.

It’s like establishing a new healthy habit. We’re really paying attention to doing good things, but then we revert back to old, unhealthy habits over time. Keep doing the things that are working. If you change your mindset and are more positive, continue to be more positive. If you’re focusing on easing the pressure and not putting expectations on yourself, keep doing that.

How to Overcome the Fear of Failure in Sports

You mentioned the word “fail.” I wish I could just destroy that word because it’s so frustrating to me. Failure indicates high expectations. Athletes often set strict standards for what success looks like—performing all skills perfectly and making everyone around them happy. When they don’t meet these standards, they feel like they failed, overshadowing all the good things they did. This high expectation is a major reason why athletes develop mental blocks.

What does it take to overcome a mental block for good?

Overcoming mental blocks involves understanding why they occur, having a plan to address them, maintaining positive habits, and rethinking failure and expectations. By focusing on these strategies, athletes can better manage their mental blocks and perform with greater confidence.

That's it! Now it's your turn.

Decide right now one way that you will use what you learned in this training to try something new this week at practice. What did you learn in this training that stood out to you? What will you do differently at practice this week to apply what you learned? I would love to support you and offer you a little accountability, so share that with us in the comments below. 

If you liked this training and found it helpful, would you do me a favor? Please share it with a friend or two who could benefit from this message. Also, please comment below with your thoughts on this video. What did you like most? I will be personally engaging in the comments, so drop your biggest questions so I can get those answered for you. I would love the opportunity to hear from you and am so excited to connect.

Thanks again for being here. Would you like to be 1st to receive new content, trainings, and mental game tips delivered right to inbox? Then join my email list by clicking here

Until next time, remember that a mental block is simply a challenge you are working through. You are strong, can do hard things, and have totally got this!

Like this? Questions? Comment below!

Leave a Comment

Your email address will not be published. Required fields are marked *